Written for Counselling Directory by Zara O'Brien "Tell me about Grandad again." "What was Mummy like when she was little?" "Do you think Nanny would be proud of me?" When children ask these questions, they're not just seeking information. They're doing something profoundly important: they're keeping their loved one alive through story. For too long, grief support focused on "letting go," "moving on," or "closure." But contemporary grief theory recognises something children i