Mealtimes can be one of the most quietly distressing parts of a child's day. For children who experience genuine anxiety around food — the racing heart before a meal, the refusal that looks like defiance but is really fear, the thoughts that spiral before a single bite — the difficulty is real, and it rarely resolves on its own.
Parents try everything. Teachers watch helplessly. And children, without the words or tools to explain what's happening, simply shut down or act out.
This five-worksheet printable bundle gives children a concrete, structured way to understand and gradually work through their anxiety about food. Rather than pushing children to eat, it starts where they are — helping them notice what they feel, where they feel it, and what they think — and then builds, step by step, toward greater confidence and agency around challenging foods.
What You Get (5 printable PDFs, instant download):
My Food Feelings – Page 1 invites children to draw or write a tricky food onto a plate, rate their worry using a visual five-point scale, shade where they feel that worry in their body, and record the thoughts that go alongside it. A reflection prompt closes the page with one small brave step.
My Food Feelings – Page 2 (My Bravery Plan) uses a graduated exposure-style ladder — look at it, touch it, smell it, just one little taste — with a bravery rating at each rung so children track how their confidence shifts as they move through each step. My Lessons, My Success, and My Next Adventure prompts support consolidation and self-compassion.
Mapping My Food Anxiety – Page 1 is suited to slightly older children or those ready to track patterns. Three structured rows capture the food, the triggering thoughts, the body sensations, and the behavioural response (avoided, pushed through, ate quickly), with two measurement scales for body feelings and worry levels — repeated three times to begin noticing patterns across foods.
Mapping My Food Anxiety – Page 2 moves into reflection and forward planning: identifying patterns, naming coping strategies (deep breathing, grounding, talking to someone), setting a SMART goal, and writing a self-compassion note to themselves as they would to a friend.
My Discovery Diner is a vibrant, weekly tracking sheet built around a diner theme. A three-section plate divides foods into Safe & Comfortable, Unsafe/Challenging, and Discovery Food of the Week. A six-step Progress Check (Look → Smell → Touch → Taste/Lick → Bite → Chew & Swallow) allows children to tick off each stage they manage — with the reminder that every step counts and they don't need to do them all at once. A Feelings Check uses five illustrated emotion characters (Very Worried, Worried, Neutral, Happy, Proud). Progress Tools suggest breathing (4-6 breathing: in for 4, out for 6), music, soft toys, fidget toys, and encouragement. A Bravery Award section closes each week with a celebration of what the child achieved.
Used together, the five sheets take children from awareness → understanding → coping strategy → graduated action → weekly celebration — in a format that is visually engaging, repeatable, and genuinely child-led.Ideal for: children aged approximately 5–12 experiencing food worry, selective eating, or food avoidance; parents supporting children at home; school SENCOs, pastoral leads, and classroom teachers; therapists and counsellors looking for structured session tools or between-session activities.
How to use: Download instantly after purchase. Print at home or at school on A4 or US Letter. No prep required. Each worksheet stands alone or can be used as a complete sequence.
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This resource was created by Zara O'Brien, a psychotherapist specialising in working with children and families, and founder of The Children's Psychology Hub — making child psychology accessible for every home and classroom.